Life at cross roads

It has been long time i have written..or perhaps written only. Thinking about life, how things turn and what you get at the end of each relation. Each of us meet many people in life and share some close and intimate thoughts about each other, and be very emotionally attached. We never think at that moment that these are going to come to an end. Yeah they come to an END. And as each relation comes to an end, we feel very upset and think about the good times, but if you remember the times when you had a fight, you will smile for the stupidity.:-).Life gives us many people to learn and to teach also. The more people we teach, we become their idols, and the more we learn from a person, they become our idol. But have you ever thought why people are sad when they part. This is because our hearts do not want this special person to be away from us. Ans also it always wants to be with that person. We do not accept the fact of seperation, so we are not happy. But the secret of being happy is to ACCEPT things. People say as time passes the wounds will heal. It is not the wounds which get healed, it is our hearts which accept the things as time passes. We need to be accepting things as and when they come and this is the secret of happiness. This is how people who always smile around you lead their life. not that they dont have any problems, or breakups. It is that they accept the things quickly.